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Rule #3: Define Your Conversational Purpose

Not every conversation is created equal. Some are meant to inform. Others are meant to convert, support, or retain. Without a clear purpose, even the best-designed dialogue risks becoming noise.

Conversation marketing only works when it’s aligned with what your audience needs — and what your business is trying to achieve.

Why Purpose Matters

A conversation without purpose is like a meeting without an agenda — it wastes time and rarely leads anywhere meaningful.

Defining your conversational purpose helps you:

  • Design flows that feel intentional, not random
  • Set expectations for users and internal teams
  • Align messaging with customer journey stages
  • Choose the right KPIs and measure what matters

Purpose isn't always about conversion

Some of your most valuable conversations won't lead to an immediate sale — they’ll build trust, clarify doubts, or offer help. And that’s just as important.


Common Conversational Objectives

Your conversational purpose should map directly to both user intent and business goals. Some examples:

Purpose Example Conversation or Flow
Educate Explaining a product feature or industry concept
Convert Guiding a user through product comparison to checkout
Support Answering post-purchase questions via chatbot
Qualify Pre-screening leads with interactive Q&A
Retain / Re-engage Recommending new content or products to existing users
Learn Asking users for feedback or preferences

Define the Voice That Delivers It

Your purpose influences not just what you say, but how you say it. Each purpose comes with a different tone, format, and flow.

Conversational tone by purpose:

Purpose Suggested Tone Channel Fit
Educate Helpful, patient Chatbot, blog, explainer video
Convert Clear, concise, persuasive Landing page, live chat, SMS
Support Empathetic, calm Help desk, WhatsApp, web chat
Retain Warm, friendly Email, app notifications
Qualify Direct, respectful Messenger, chatbot, quiz

Real-World Example: LEGO Gift Finder

LEGO uses a chatbot during peak holiday periods to help shoppers find the perfect gift based on recipient, age, and budget. The purpose? Reduce friction, boost conversion — and make the process fun. The tone is playful but purposeful.


How to Define Your Purpose

Start each conversation design with three simple questions:

  1. What is the user trying to do here?
    (E.g. learn, buy, decide, get help?)

  2. What does the business need from this interaction?
    (E.g. drive sales, reduce support load, gather data?)

  3. How should this feel to the customer?
    (Tone, pacing, language, expectations)

When your answers align, you’ve found your conversational sweet spot.


What This Rule Really Means

Every conversation should have a reason to exist — and a reason to continue. Purpose brings focus. It turns automation into experience and intent into results.

“Without strategy, content is just stuff. And the world has enough stuff.”
Arjun Basu


Next: Rule #4 – Be Where the Conversation Is